Sunday, June 25, 2006
hmmm..
restrictions, restrictions.
students these days, have so much restrictions from their parents.
yet others, don even have restrictions at all.
is it good or bad?
well. i think that, the middle would be good. having a bit of restrictions. like, every now and then your parents pop in and like, hmm you are studying, thats good, you want any chips to go along?
even if its just a pop by, or if u r playing really too much, just say like last game k? or last 15 mins, then make sure u go study.
i think parents, controlling their children too much, are just tai guo fen le.
i mean, talk to them, talk a one on one talk to them, try to instill beliefs into their mind, instill new revelation. spark a new beginning of thinking.
teens these days, after mid year le, after hols, if u still thinking of going out during weekdays, go out and havoc, i bet u. u r hopeless. forget abt making it big. unless and of course, you are a genius. really, i think studying now is really good. if i had a second chance, i would really take this time and study. rather than go out. of course, you can spend a bit of time with frens after school, go macs and chat or something, but not orchard or movie or watever not.
parents, just take it easy on your children. its usually stress that is controlling the parents mind, so kids, don take it on them k? sometimes we must understand our parents too. that they are under a lot of work pressure, that they cannot think straight or they don look at the whole situation. unless of course, your parents are the boss of their company. then if they still do this, you can ask them to go eat shit.
parents that don even control their children at all, are really hopeless. they will let their child lose out in the end.
well, being inspired by what pastor zhuang said the other day at the superman event, that parents sometimes never experienced care from their parents before, can never treat their children with the same kind of treatment. i got touched by that, and believe me, i cried. i was opened to a new revelation, and i decided to look on everything as a whole. so that it would be easier to understand the situation around u.
i agree, parents love is really important in raising a child, and i noe, and believe, that i can provide that. but some other stuff i have to overcome. in my case, my dad provides a lot of love to me, showers me with it even. but my mom, is too busy bringing in the $$ but is too busy to spend time with me, and care for me. but i noe she cares, cause when theres really a need to, she does. im trying more and more to understand that. and trying not to take it too hard on them, or to blame them. understanding goes a long way.
- I contemplated at 7:31 pm
